Q: "I was the oldest in my house when I was growing up. Now I have a bossy big sister. I can’t stand her and I don’t want her here anymore. Can I get rid of her?" (Michael, age 8)

A: No longer being the oldest is going to be a tough change for you Michael. You aren't used to having to answer to anyone older other than your parents, so having an older sibling is no fun! Depending on how much older your sister is, maybe the two of you can sit down together and come up with some rules for the house and your younger siblings. Try talking with her about what is bothering you or write her a letter asking for help in making things better between you. If you need help, ask your parents to step in and help sort some of this out.